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Complaining spends your time and buys nothing, and time is all you have.
Most people assume a dying man has no time for anything but goodbye.
Randy Pausch, a Carnegie Mellon professor with months to live, spent his on a lecture about living.
His book, The Last Lecture, written with Jeffrey Zaslow, is a field guide for anyone who still believes there is plenty of time left.
Graduate school turned him down at first.
He got in only because a mentor made a call and he dropped his arrogance long enough to accept the help.
Brick walls are not there to keep us out.
They are there to show how badly we want something.
They stop the people who do not want it enough.
Most of us read a rejection as a verdict.
Treat it as a question instead: how much does this matter to you?
You have probably answered that question before without noticing, usually by quitting after one closed door.
Even failures pay.
Missing the NFL still taught him fundamentals and hard work, a lesson he called a head fake, where you chase one thing and learn another.
A wall is a question about your desire, not a verdict on your worth.
Honest critics are the ones still on your side.
At Brown, a mentor told him it was a shame people found him arrogant, because it would limit what he could accomplish.
He realized he had just been told, politely, that he was a jerk.
His football coach had taught the flip side.
When you are screwing up and nobody says anything anymore, they have given up on you.
Your critics are often the ones telling you they still love you and want to make you better.
So run a test.
Count the people in your life who still tell you the truth.
If that list has shrunk, the silence is not peace.
It may be people quietly giving up.
Feedback you resist today may be the only thing between you and a ceiling you cannot see.
Praise feels like love, but honest criticism usually is.
Honesty only helps if you have time left to use it.
Treat time like money.
It must be explicitly managed, and you can always change your plan, but only if you have one.
Ignore the trivial.
It does not matter how well you polish the underside of the banister.
Keep asking whether you are spending your time on the right things, because time is all you have, and you may find one day that you have less than you think.
That sentence lands differently from a man counting months.
It reframes ordinary habits like complaining.
Complaining does not work as a strategy.
We all have finite time and energy, and whining will not help us reach our goals or make us happier.
Take one tenth of the energy you pour into complaining and apply it to the problem.
Then protect what remains for people.
Every hour spent complaining is an hour you will never get back.
The clock was never your enemy.
Your belief that it was infinite was.
If this changed how you think about your own time, someone in your life probably needs to hear it too.
Walls reveal desire, honest critics keep you growing, and time is the one budget you cannot refill.
This summary of The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch captures one argument, but the book holds more.
His three-part formula for a proper apology, his case for being a Tigger rather than an Eeyore, and his letter to his children remain untold.
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